Home : Women Members : How To Meet These Women : Asian women, What is the attraction? : About The Philippine Women : F A Q's : Tour Packages and Prices : Trip Info : Sign Up Forms : Your Safe In The Philippines : About Us : Dating links : More Dating links : Mail Order Bride Law : Philippine and Cebu City Maps : Hotel Accommodations : Site Map : Send Flowers and Gifts To The Philippines : Get Your Teeth Fixed at low cost in Cebu : Cebu,/Rentals/Real Estate/Businesses/Retiring : Currency Converter If You Are Meeting Women Online, Read This To Save Yourself Some Possible Heartache Being in this business for a long time, I have heard just about every sad story of disappointments that men have had with women they meet on line and not just Filipina women, but other Asian women, Russian women {ESPECIALLY}, Latin women and others. They would think after a few conversations or many conversations the women would be theirs and theirs alone. That she would be loyal to them with no other chat partners or interest in any other men. Most of the time, the vast majority of the time I will venture to day, nothing could be further from the truth! Many of these women not only will have other men chat mates but I can almost guarantee you she will have a Filipino boy friend especially is she is reasonably attractive. I am not saying that her having a boyfriend is bad or deceitful, but let’s just be real here. Could one expect her to not date just because she is looking for a foreign man? The problem with many of us men is that we are thinking with the wrong part of our body and we both know what that is! The other mistake men make is sending money. As stated on other areas of our site, that is the worse thing a man can do as he will never know if she stays tied to the man for money or for real interest in him? A decent Filipina will not ask for money. If she does, it will be a long way down the road and it should be only for her to be able to pay Internet cafe fees so she can chat with him. When she starts with the stories of illness with her or her family, she is usually lying. A sincere Filipina will not jeopardize her relationship with a man on line who she truly has genuine interest in by asking for money. So many men think that sending money will mean a commitment from the women is underway. This is absolutely not true! After weeks or months of chatting or phone calls the man is fantasizing about the day he meets is Filipina darling. The whole time thinking she is his and his only, but the chances are there are other men who are thinking the same thing about the same girl! Most of the time, it is the man on the other end who is committed in his mind and emotionally or at least he thinks so. A man recently wrote us and told us how he has sent a women over $2000.00 and nothing materialized. She did however admit that she scammed him. Talk about arrogance! The sad thing mostly, he seemed to be a very decent and sincere man and did not deserve this to happen to him. Many men without realizing it or admitting it actually think they can buy a women’s love. Regardless if every man would know this, they will still send these women money thinking in their minds, that their particular girl or situation is different, but it is usually NOT..... Remember also, you have no one to blame but yourself. Why do you think it is necessary to send chat partners money? if she were that poor she would not be in a cafe using a terminal and a video cam. When you date a girl a few times at home, do you give her money? In short, don't be a sucker as there are to many of them as it is. *** MORE READING *** "It is common knowledge in the Philippines among the unsavory types of women that there are many men on the net that are easy pickens to pry money out of. The method of meeting women like purchasing lists has been available for many years and recently the computer has facilitated this even more so. With E-Mail, instant messenger, video cams, etc there are even more avenues open to men to meet women. However, a word of caution, as mentioned on other web sites, there is large dark side to this method. Men are communicating with women whom are anything but the kind you want to bring home to meet mom! You just do not have any way to qualify women you are meeting and attaching to with these methods. It is common knowledge in the Philippines among the unsavory types of women that there are many men on the net that are easy pickens to pry money out of. This is a common knowledge among young woman here. You see these beautiful young faces and you know you will not be able to find girls like this back home and many men just fall into the trap and send them money and keep sending it. They make you feel that it is only you in their life. You will be told of a sick relative they have, or no money for food, school tuition etc. The chances are also they have other men they are doing the same with and laughing at you the whole time and laughing with their boyfriends!! Now, not all the women you meet are like this, but you can be sure there are a lot. My wife on a recent trip back home has seen it herself when she goes to the public Internet terminals in Cebu when she was visiting her family a short time ago. She witnessed one girl with her friends out of view of the web cam saying how easy it is to get the guys to believe stories and have them send money. Sometimes or perhaps a lot of times, the women do not even have to ask for money. Many men are offering to send money and they do! This is just plain stupidity and we have no sympathy for men that do this and get taken to the cleaners. If you send women money, you will never know if they are communicating with you so they can continue to receive it or if they genuinely have interest in you. Many for these women will play this game right up to the time the unsuspecting men arrive in her country to meet her and stringing him along the whole time he is there. They can continue this game for quite a while, promising and agreeing to marriage to get larger amounts of money flowing to her while the man is visiting her and after he leaves. Some of these women will continue this game for as long as she can enjoying the cash rewards of her labor on herself, family and usually her boyfriend that she has had behind the scenes all along. If you think this is not common, think again? *** IT GETS WORSE!*** On another occasion my sister-in-law witnessed a college girl giving instructions to four or five Filipino girls how to gain the confidence of these guys and get them to send money like this. It is all over the college campuses throughout the country how to get money in this manner and the girls are getting it! The pen pal method of writing letters had its share of con games also, but since it took so long for letters to go back and forth, there was not as much abuse like now. Communicating via instant messenger, video cams and chat sites can be dangerous and disappointing if you use these methods for your initial way of first meeting these women. We have a bag full of horror stories to tell you about men who have used those methods. Not all men have bad results from these methods but many of them have. These various media outlets are full of bar girls and girls of opportunity. As we stated previously, not all the girls you will meet in these ways are bad types. Many men find good women with these methods but many do not and only find this out after they wasted much time and money especially if the man also flew all the way to the Philippines to meet her. Most Filipino women are very honest, but one must remember that the Philippines is a poor country and the methods of meeting women just described attracts many of the kind no man wants. If you are using one of these methods and the girl directly or indirectly hint at her need for money, time to move on! Just use your God given common sense. As we stated before, you can find good women with these methods, but it will take a lot more time to sort them out than if you were to meet pre qualified women as with our introduction service. It is also certain, you will not meet anywhere near the quantity of women if you try it on your own as we will introduce you to. Make the most effective use of your time and money. All the women that we have in our service are known quite well to us and we check their backgrounds. We have had from time to time, women in our service who were not of the type we wanted to meet our clients, but we quickly disqualified them. This is not the case with the pen pals, chatting, video cams etc. There is just no way you can have this done so easily on your own.